13 Comments October 10, 2018 Individuation: stumbling toward emotional self-reliance Maybe the most obvious way to talk about individuation is to say that, in the context of my marriage, if there was a bad feeling, I would look to my spouse to help me with it. Over the years, this mean that basically I held him at least partially responsible for my sense of well-being. Then, suddenly, my sense of well-being was very much my responsibility alone… and ultimately, it always was. Read More 1.1k October 5, 2018 Offbeat Resilience: now on Insta and Offbeat Home & Life Hey, Homies! Some of you may have noticed some shifts in our posts here on offbeathome.com. Catherine and I have been making some changes with how we're managing the editorial on Offbeat Home & Life, and I figured I'd give a little bit more background about what's going on… Read More October 3, 2018 SEATTLE EVENT: Demon Dialogues with Lucy Bellwood on October 16, 2018 As part of my Offbeat Ada's series of author events here in Seattle at Ada's Technical Books, on October 16, 2018 I'll be hosting a night with Lucy Bellwood, author of a book called 100 Demon Dialogues. The evening will feature a reading and discussion about Lucy's collection of comics about cohabiting with a petulant (if oddly lovable) Inner Critic. Seattle friends: I hope to see you there! Read More 1.7k 13 Comments September 26, 2018 Microdosing pain: how to make things suck less, by sucking more The truth of my anxiety is revealed: I invested all my time in building little walls all over the place to try to shelter myself from pain, but what I was actually doing was denying myself opportunities to learn and become more capable. So what if I choose to expose myself to pain in small doses so that I can get better at managing it? Read More June 4, 2018 Angel wings float: an epic, overwrought product review I got a free FUNBOY Angel Wings float to review, so I took it out to a friend's place on Lake Washington and did some very thorough testing of the product. Here are my thoughts… Read More 123…88
1.1k October 5, 2018 Offbeat Resilience: now on Insta and Offbeat Home & Life Hey, Homies! Some of you may have noticed some shifts in our posts here on offbeathome.com. Catherine and I have been making some changes with how we're managing the editorial on Offbeat Home & Life, and I figured I'd give a little bit more background about what's going on… Read More October 3, 2018 SEATTLE EVENT: Demon Dialogues with Lucy Bellwood on October 16, 2018 As part of my Offbeat Ada's series of author events here in Seattle at Ada's Technical Books, on October 16, 2018 I'll be hosting a night with Lucy Bellwood, author of a book called 100 Demon Dialogues. The evening will feature a reading and discussion about Lucy's collection of comics about cohabiting with a petulant (if oddly lovable) Inner Critic. Seattle friends: I hope to see you there! Read More 1.7k 13 Comments September 26, 2018 Microdosing pain: how to make things suck less, by sucking more The truth of my anxiety is revealed: I invested all my time in building little walls all over the place to try to shelter myself from pain, but what I was actually doing was denying myself opportunities to learn and become more capable. So what if I choose to expose myself to pain in small doses so that I can get better at managing it? Read More June 4, 2018 Angel wings float: an epic, overwrought product review I got a free FUNBOY Angel Wings float to review, so I took it out to a friend's place on Lake Washington and did some very thorough testing of the product. Here are my thoughts… Read More 123…88
October 3, 2018 SEATTLE EVENT: Demon Dialogues with Lucy Bellwood on October 16, 2018 As part of my Offbeat Ada's series of author events here in Seattle at Ada's Technical Books, on October 16, 2018 I'll be hosting a night with Lucy Bellwood, author of a book called 100 Demon Dialogues. The evening will feature a reading and discussion about Lucy's collection of comics about cohabiting with a petulant (if oddly lovable) Inner Critic. Seattle friends: I hope to see you there! Read More 1.7k 13 Comments September 26, 2018 Microdosing pain: how to make things suck less, by sucking more The truth of my anxiety is revealed: I invested all my time in building little walls all over the place to try to shelter myself from pain, but what I was actually doing was denying myself opportunities to learn and become more capable. So what if I choose to expose myself to pain in small doses so that I can get better at managing it? Read More June 4, 2018 Angel wings float: an epic, overwrought product review I got a free FUNBOY Angel Wings float to review, so I took it out to a friend's place on Lake Washington and did some very thorough testing of the product. Here are my thoughts… Read More 123…88
1.7k 13 Comments September 26, 2018 Microdosing pain: how to make things suck less, by sucking more The truth of my anxiety is revealed: I invested all my time in building little walls all over the place to try to shelter myself from pain, but what I was actually doing was denying myself opportunities to learn and become more capable. So what if I choose to expose myself to pain in small doses so that I can get better at managing it? Read More June 4, 2018 Angel wings float: an epic, overwrought product review I got a free FUNBOY Angel Wings float to review, so I took it out to a friend's place on Lake Washington and did some very thorough testing of the product. Here are my thoughts… Read More 123…88
June 4, 2018 Angel wings float: an epic, overwrought product review I got a free FUNBOY Angel Wings float to review, so I took it out to a friend's place on Lake Washington and did some very thorough testing of the product. Here are my thoughts… Read More 123…88