There are two legal substances in this photo. I exhibit habitual, compulsive behaviors around one of them. UPDATE 2020: This writing has been migrated to The Afterglow, my members-only private publication. Join today and get instant access to this post, and so much more. < Previous Post #MeToo pissed me off until I looked inside to see why Next Post > Rockabilly & pin-up maternity clothing for retro mamas About the Author: Ariel @findyourafterglow Author of three editions of the Offbeat Bride book and From Shitshow To Afterglow, Ariel Meadow Stallings is the publisher of of all the Offbeat Empire websites, including Offbeat Wed. She lives in Seattle with her son, and if she's not writing or scrolling, chances are good that she's dancing or happy-crying.