It’s really interesting what happens when you turn “should” into “could.” It makes even a shitty chore feel more positive.
By re-framing a dull task you should do by using “could” it makes you consider what opportunities might hide within. It’s like when you anticipate doing something fun, and you end up considering how to make it the most of an enjoyable experience…
- “I could wash up … listening to my favourite radio show!“
- “I could walk the dog …. and treat myself to an ice cream on the way home!“
- “I could take my [dull relative] out … to see that show I’ve been dying to see.”
- “I could clean out the cat litter… and the room won’t smell! Yay!
“Should” is an obligation; “could” is an opportunity. My life is much more enjoyable with my friend “could.”
More posts about hacking chores:
Who else has figured out this little life hack? What dull chores have you turned into opportunities?
Comments on Life hack: Turn “should” into “could” for dull chores
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THANK YOU!!! That is exactly the advice I needed.