Tarot: Your intuitive introspection tool #Philosophy#goals#meditation#spirituality March 6 2018 | Caroline drechyng The card I drew on my 31st birthday for my year ahead. Related Post Wands optional: intentional thinking and magic For me, focus, intentional thinking, meditation, prayer, and mindfulness all translate to a clearer trajectory and more successful outcome for whatever task I'm grappling with.... Read more When I was a kid, I had to make a decision about which movie I could see for my birthday. The choice was between Dunston Checks In and Muppet Treasure Island. I saw maybe one movie a year as a kid so this was a big decision. I decided to flip a coin, assigning a movie to each side. When the coin chose Dunston Checks In and I felt disappointed, I was able to figure out that Muppet Treasure Island was what my heart really wanted. I disregarded the coin’s choice but it had helped me to realize what I actually wanted. These days my decisions are often unfortunately a little more important than which movie to see. My mom still tells me to flip a coin when I can’t decide something so that I can figure out what my gut wants. But instead of a coin, I now use tarot cards. Even if you’re happy with what you saw, you have to do the work to ruminate on the why. Tarot, like astrology, runestones, reading tea leaves, etc., are tools to help us to consider parts of our consciousness that are otherwise difficult to confront. I have friends who tell me that the reason they don’t “get” tarot is because they find themselves just reading into the cards what they want to see. That’s exactly how you’re supposed to use them! But by reading into them and seeing what you want to see, you’re meant to contemplate why you want to see it. Tarot cards never give you an easy answer. Even if you’re happy with what you saw, you have to do the work to ruminate on the why. Once that clicked for me, tarot became a very fulfilling hobby (and now a profession — more on that later). After all, it's called “reading” tarot for a reason. Interpreting symbols and applying those interpretations to different situations is part of what I do as a literature grad student. Humanities degrees are supposed to train us to think critically about issues and consider multiple answers. Other than on my podcasts, I don’t get to apply my reading skills for anything outside of school very often. So when I realized that the connections I make between symbols and cards and queries uses the same skill set I’ve been training basically my whole life, I was pretty satisfied. But what if you’re not entirely sure how to get started with tarot, or you’ve tried but come up against some blocks? You don’t need a degree, or even a fondness for symbols, or anything, really. Just a willingness to look openly and honestly, and a deck. Here are my tips for tarot newbies… You’re going to second guess yourself, but go with your gut Related Post Building an independent daily spiritual practice For me, my daily spiritual practice is a pretty personal, private thing. It makes me a little squeamish to share what I'm doing, but I've... Read more When I show people how to draw cards I describe it as “When you feel like you’ve shuffled enough” or “When you feel like you’ve reached the right card.” When someone is telling you to do this, even if you’re a little hesitant, you can usually commit to a card. When you’re trying it alone, it is extremely easy to second-third-fourth-etc. guess your choice. I do it myself. Do I really feel like I’ve reached the right card?? What is a feeling anyway? Who am I and why am I on this planet? It snowballs quickly. But eventually, after practice and trusting yourself more and more, you’re able to listen to that little voice that told you “now” before the other voices said “well hold on a minute.” The first, most quiet voice is your intuition, and it’s what’s steering the ship here. Listen to it. Try really hard to avoid books and websites at first I use BiddyTarot and a couple of books (like this one) when I’m studying cards. At first I thought I’d have to memorize all the card meanings and symbolism, which was daunting af. I realized pretty quickly that wasn’t going to work unless I committed myself to doing at a rate I didn’t have time for. So instead, I started to try to read the cards myself. The Waite-Smith deck, which is my favourite one (and is often called the Rider-Waite deck) was envisioned by Waite and brought to visual reality by Smith’s illustrations. The symbolism of each card is deep but not at all obfuscated, especially if you like to read symbols. Take a crack at the cards you draw by yourself. Study the cards and see what jumps out at you. Write down your observations, and then if you want, supplement them with guides. You’ll find that your observations are usually in line with the guides, or they’re even more intuitively applicable to your question because you’re the one who took the time to study the illustrations. If you’re feeling very lost, you can begin by studying the numerology and symbolism behind each suit. That way you always have a guidepost when you pull a card, and you can let your imagination and intuition help you further. Oh by the way: If you'd rather not worry about the specific meanings for reverse cards, that's fine. The first time I got a professional reading, my reader just flipped cards to their right way up. "You can do that?!" I asked, and she laughed and replied, "You can do whatever you want." Best advice ever. If reverse meanings feel right for you, go for it. If not, there are no rules. Just right. Can I buy my own tarot deck? Don’t worry if you’ve heard that you must be gifted a tarot deck. The important part of the deck is that you have a relationship with it, and it doesn’t matter how that relationship starts. If you’re at a shop and a deck calls out to you, that deck is going to serve you just as well as one your friend gave you. Spend time with your deck shuffling it and looking at the cards. Once it knows you and you know it, it doesn’t matter how it got in your hands. On a related note: some people are really protective of their decks and the energy that comes in contact with them, so you shouldn’t pick one up and start flipping through it without permission. Just like you shouldn’t touch anybody’s anything without permission. Trust the cards and don’t keep re-drawing to get the answer you want. That’s an answer in itself If you’re disappointed or worried about the answer you were given, it’s an opportunity to meditate on those feelings. If you didn’t get the answer you were hoping for when you asked the deck a question, don’t keep asking anew. You can definitely draw a couple clarifying cards to help you understand your original answer, but if you keep asking the deck the same thing you are just going to go into an anxiety spiral, lose faith in the process, and probably end up disliking tarot. If you’re disappointed or worried about the answer you were given, it’s an opportunity to meditate on those feelings. Why do you feel that way? What would you have rather had? How can you deal with what you got so that you can get what you want? Did the card point out something you were willfully ignoring that you need to face? Did the card bring something to light that you had hoped wasn’t going to be an issue? Your reaction to the cards is where their power lies. Don’t waste a reaction even if it wasn’t what you were expecting. This card makes me think X, but the guide says it’s Y. What do I do? If you studied a card before reading a guide and it gave you a clear feeling or answer, it’s a valid one. It may not be “correct,” but it’s valid. So that means that even if the guide tells you you’re actually supposed to interpret this card to mean something else, explore why your intuition wanted you to find the first reading. The whole point to this exercise is to let ourselves feel secure enough to realize what we’re really thinking deep down rather than worrying about what we “should” be thinking. Like I said, you can supplement your gut feelings with the guides, but your gut feelings trump everything. Your feelings are always valid even if they’re not necessarily correct. The important thing is to be able to differentiate between these two categories. My feeling is valid -> Why am I feeling this way? -> How can understanding it help me in this situation? You don’t have to act on feelings (especially if they’re not true). Spreads are complicated! How do I keep all the card position meanings straight on top of the meanings of the cards? They are complicated, and you definitely don’t have to start off drawing big spreads (or ever draw big spreads). You can just draw one card for your day, week, month, year, whatever. You can draw a single card for a single question. You can draw three cards for past, present, and future, in general or for a specific query. Keep it simple and remember that the exercise is to help you clarify your feelings, not make them more complicated. A photo of a spread I did for a client, and the meditation "take-away" I wrote for her reading's summary. Get a professional reading Related Post Neutralize negativity & increase cheerfulness: How to enhance your home with crystals and stones From deflecting negativity to encouraging good cheer, crystals and stones provide a great way to add positive energy to your home. Each stone or crystal... Read more I visit my tarot reader Michelle every spring. Having someone else guide me through the spread and prompt me to think of my issue in different ways is always hugely helpful and I always leave feeling calmer and more confident, which in turn reinvigorates confidence in my own practice and dispels any impostor syndrome about my self-help strategy that’s accumulated since I last saw her. It probably doesn’t seem it, but I am a strangely skeptical person when it comes to magic. I went in to my first meeting with Michelle trying to read her as she was reading me. I eventually realized that even if she uses her observations about me to colour her reading (rather than just being a medium through which the spirits ethereal speak The One Truth or whatever), her observations can help me better interpret what I’m feeling. Even if I disagree with something the reader or the cards are saying, the fact that I disagree is noteworthy and should be explored. From the first time Michelle met me she said that I should be reading tarot for others professionally, too. I laughed because I never thought I’d want to do that. Four years later, that’s exactly what I’m doing, though a little bit differently. I read your cards based on a question you send me, and in a spread I came up with myself because I felt it gave enough insight without being overwhelming. I photograph the cards I draw for you. Then I write up a document of my reading and send it back to you so you can keep going back to it. This has been an incredibly rewarding experience as my clients so far have found their readings very helpful, but every reading also helps me, too. I am able to apply the readings to facets of my own life, often thinking “I should follow my own damn advice” while writing them. Do I have to do my readings during a full moon/on my birthday/when the date is a prime number? Just like any type of exercise or practice, the important part is that you do them, not when. Sure, I believe the moon phases are magical and can influence us in ways that make us more intuitive. If I need to process some feelings or get guidance right the fuck now immediately, I’m not going to care what day of the month it is. I also don't worry about only drawing cards at my altar, with candles, lit, or anything like that, though I do enjoy doing that when I have the time. Draw cards on your commute if you need to. You don’t need anything but a deck… Can I use a tarot app instead of a deck? …or an app that has a deck. Those work just as well, because, once more, they are tools of introspection. Their magic comes from how they give you the confidence to unlock and confront feelings you otherwise wouldn’t. If you personally don’t feel an app could possibly work as well as a deck, then that means for you it definitely wouldn’t. But if you don’t have strong feelings against electronic tarot, that means your intuition is fine with the digital age and will come along for the ride just the same. I'm partial to this one in particular. Hopefully that answered some of the questions you had about getting started. Do you use tarot cards to help you sort out feelings, or to help guide yourself with magic? Do you see them as a secular or spiritual tool, or both? The year I started dating god with a lowercase g Last year I started dating god. This sounds insane in maybe 10 different ways, especially for ME to say, since for most of my life, my spirituality boiled down to… Read More Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo Caroline Caroline was the Offbeat Empire copyeditor from 2011-2015. Caroline is a Canadian genderweird witch and literature PhD student living in Aix-En-Provence, France. They love art and powerlifting, and they spend their free time with their boyfriend, their girlfriend, and their black cat and familiar, Zee. @drechyng @drechyng PREVIOUS How one woman tackled her body dysmorphia with pole dancing NEXT This DIY Settlers of Catan gaming table is game room #goals Show/Hide comments [ 12 ] I've never heard this type of explanation of using tarot, and I love it! You make it very grounded and practical as a self-discovery tool. I haven't read a ton on the subject, but in the past, I felt like it was all just too much, too out-there, too made-up. This sort of practical approach makes it both do-able and more genuine in my mind as a method of tapping into a spiritual force. Very cool. 6 agree Reply Thanks so much! So glad to hear it 🙂 1 agrees Reply Something I meditate on quite a bit is the question or situation I'm asking about. I sometimes find myself reaching for my deck with just an impression of a situation on my mind. "Work, ugh" is–shocking to no one–not actually a question. And while tarot decks can TOTALLY give you insight based on that, it can also be a little confusing about how it applies to the situation. So I like the opportunity to think through what's really on my mind before I pull a card, and then think about it through a different lens once I do a spread. 1 agrees Reply Thanks so much for this! I've been wanting to get back into Tarot as a tool for myself, since July, but I keep coming up with excuses (largely based around my not having the book meanings of the cards memorized). This feels like a reminder from the universe to just draw the cards already- and I really appreciate your emphasis on intuitive understanding of a card over academic learning. 1 agrees Reply Yay so glad to hear it!! Reply I've used tarot for years casually as an introspection tool and for writing exercises (it's totally valid for breaking writer's block). This was a very interesting post and inspired me to pull out my deck and do a few simple spreads for myself. I've never tried just interpreting the cards by look before referring to the guide, and that was a great tip. I got the same card 3 times, so I have a lot to ruminate about on that. 1 agrees Reply That's a great point about writer's block. I'm glad the post helped and I'm impressed with how loudly that card is calling your attention! Reply I love tarot and really appreciate it's service as a medium of reflection. I haven't used any of my cards in a few months – life pulled me in other directions – but I have been feeling really strongly in using them again and I so appreciated reading this post today. Thank you. 1 agrees Reply Thank you for reading!! Reply Thank you for this amazing article! My husband reads tarot in much the same way, and he has always found it to be incredibly fulfilling. Could you talk a bit more about how you started doing it professionally? He has tried in the past, but he wasn't able to get much traction. 1 agrees Reply Thanks so much! To be honest I only just started a couple months ago, so it remains to be seen if I get traction, too! After I decided I'd do written readings and settled on the spread I invented, I signed up for a BigCartel store and did a bunch for friends to get some reviews up there. I don't do readings in person (yet) because readings that I write out mean I can do them whenever I have time. Does your husband want to do them online, or in person, or both? If you want to contact me outside of the comments please feel free http://theaetherspread.bigcartel.com/contact Reply I've been interested lately on illustrating my own tarot deck using entomological and botanical imagery. 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