My husband, our two closest friends (who are married to each other), and I all live in an apartment building that has recently been purchased by an Evil Property Management Company. We aren’t bound by a long-term lease, so we’re considering moving out — all four of us together.
Since we have loved the community we have created living in the same building (we do a lot together, including having dinner together once per week), we’ve started discussing the possibility of renting a townhouse together, and living in closer community.
All of us have lived in some degree of community before, and had some combination of good and bad experiences with it, so we want to make sure we don’t fall into a dysfunctional roommate dynamic. Also, we’re all introverts to a greater or lesser degree, so we need to make sure we protect alone time. Has anyone else lived as a couple with another couple, or been an introvert living in intentional community? What made it work? What made it hard? -Sylvia