Maybe it’s just me (oh man, I really hope it’s not just me), but some of my favorite parenting inspirations come straight from the movies. I thought it was high-time Offbeat Mama paid tribute to our cinematic (and fictional, for the most part) soul sisters, so here are a few of my favorites:

Rachel Flax, Mermaids: Have you SEEN the utter BRILLIANCE that is Mermaids? It came out in 1990, but I didn’t see it until I was in high school and my best friend was nursing a serious girl-crush on Winona Ryder. Winona plays Charlotte Flax, the daughter of Rachel, who is infamously played by the ever-so-fabulous Cher. The basic premise is that Rachel and her daughters have recently moved to a small-town in Massachusetts, and Charlotte is going through a particularly religious, I’m-going-to-be-a-nun phase. Even though she and her family are Jewish, Charlotte changes her religious preference quite often, to the point where Rachel utters the sentence “Alright, you know what? I’ll make you a deal. You stop being a little bitch for, let’s say, oh, I don’t know, an hour or two, and I won’t knock the religion of your choice for a week,” thus sealing her as the queen of my heart. Bonus: little sister Kate is played by a very adorable, very young Christina Ricci!

Elaine Miller, Almost Famous: Warning — if you’ve ever been into Almost Famous, you might spend the rest of your day quoting the movie after this. There was a period that overlapped high school and my first three years of college in which I was constantly quoting Almost Famous and pretending to be Penny Lane. (Honestly, it still happens now.) When I wasn’t hung up on the Penny-Russell drama and how they were so meant to be, O-M-G, I was also screeching “ROCK STARS HAVE KIDNAPPED MY SON” at anyone who who screech it back. Elaine Miller, the widowed mother of two who only let her kids celebrate Christmas “on a day in September” had her not-so-great moments (banning Simon and Garfunkel? Because they smoke weed? C’mon, Elaine. “Simon and Garfunkel is POETRY.”), but she was, and is, still an epic example in the field of movie mamas.

Mary, E.T.: The Extra-Terrestrial: E.T. is one of my favorite movies of all time, and Elliot’s mother Mary is easily one of the most badass movie mamas ever. Not only is she holding her family of four (Elliot, brother Mike, sister Gertie) together after being left by her ex-husband, she also copes somewhat well upon learning that her son has not only found, but befriended in a really magical and/or symbiotic kind of way, an alien creature. Plus, who do you think taught Elliot how to be so nice and gentle with E.T. (and likely other creatures) in the first place? While I personally find E.T. and all of his idiosyncrasies to be quite charming and adorable, I can totally get that most people might not.

Molly Weasley, Harry Potter 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, etc etc): Molly Weasley is a total badass, and not only for five incredibly infamous words she utters in the book version of Deathly Hallows (Bellatrix totally had it coming). She’s given birth to and raised nine SEVEN (what was I thinking?! For shame!) incredible kids, even Percy, even though he takes forever to finally come around. She’s also a bit of an enigma — while the movies don’t always show it, the books are littered with hints that Mrs. Weasley has a whole lot more than hand-made Christmas sweaters and really awesome house-cleaning spells up her sleeve, and she often demonstrates this when you least expect it.

Key, Children of Men: Key is the LAST PREGNANT WOMAN ON THE PLANET. If you haven’t seen Children of Men (why haven’t you seen Children of Men?! It’s directed by Alfonso CuarΓ³n! That’s reason enough.), here’s a small breakdown: It’s 2027, human beings have lost the ability to create babies, and a former activist is approached by his ex-wife to help the only pregnant woman in the world get to a boat where she’ll be able to live and raise her child. The birth scene (which I was unable to find online) is incredibly epic, and completely worth watching the entire film if not just for it alone.

Tell me, tell me! Who are your big (and small) screen favorite moms?

Comments on Five offbeat movie mamas who make us proud

  1. Sorry to kind of kill some of the joy for Molly Weasley, but unless two of the kids were very rarely talked about and/or I am really blanking on it, she only had 7 kids. Although Fred and George gave her enough grief to make up for it.

  2. an odd one but I still love her resilience, Mrs Banks in Mary Poppins, singing

    “Our daughters’ daughters will adore us, and they’ll sing in grateful chorus

    ‘Well done, Sister Suffragette!’ “

  3. Okay, I don’t know much about her parenting skills, but what about Catherine Keener’s character (Maxine Lund) in Being John Malkovich? She seduces John Cusack’s character while he is embodying John Malkovich so that she can get pregnant with a daughter whom she raises with her partner, Lotte Schwartz (played by Cameron Diaz). Talk about non-traditional family!

  4. Alice in “Alice Doesn’t Live Here Anymore”. Bad ass suddenly single mom chasing her dreams. Ellen Burstin, directed by Scorsese (in the 70’s). Classic with a rockin sound track (and a super studly Kris Kristofferson(sp?)

  5. Sarah Connor from Terminator and Terminator 2. In a heartbeat. I find her an amazingly powerful mother character.

    Also, Ripley in Aliens. Not technically a mother, but there’s that classic line…. πŸ˜€

    • Sarah Connor- Oh hellz yeah!

      It’s been a long time since I saw Aliens, but I believe Ripley did have a daughter who she outlived because of cryogenic freezing or something. So then little girl Newt becomes a surrogate daughter to her. Also, did you know that the character of Ripley was originally supposed to be a man but was changed in a last minute rewrite? High-fives to the writer who made that decision!

  6. It probably counts as a Big Screen Mum, but only if we bend the rules a little bit: Marge Gunderson from Fargo.

    Easily one of the best films ever, and easily one of the best women on screen ever. She is great at her job, a great wife to Norm, a great detective, desirable, strong, smart and funny, and she does all that while 7 months pregnant.

    You know, you just KNOW she’ll be an awesome mother

  7. Molly Weasley is my role model!!

    I also love Joyce Summers on Buffy the Vampire Slayer. She rolls with the punches and keeps her sense of humor intact.

  8. My favorite mom is Mrs. Parker from a Christmas Story she is the queen of mothering, although not so offbeat. But my favorite offbeat mom is Brenda MacGuff in Juno she is bad ass and isn’t gonna take an shit from anybody! Also she knows how to sew and that is a great momma skill… Hello awesome 500 dollar prom dress… BAM! Mom made it for $50! (also Allison Janney’s character Loretta in Drop Dead Gorgeous is also the shiz. She is like a second mom to Amber and not only is she hilarious but she only has Amber’s best interests at heart.)

  9. Umm girls, Marge Simpson FTW? Her family is totally nuts, her husband’s an idiot and she just gets on with shit ‘cos hey, that’s what we girls do. She’s my freakin hero!

  10. Carole Hudson (Finn’s mom) on Glee! Raised a kid on her own, went after happiness with a single dad, and (small spoiler if you’re behind this season) sacrificed her honeymoon so her new stepson could go to the private school he needed.

    Also, Burt Hummel (Curt’s dad) get’s a big nod as an excellent on-screen offbeat papa.

  11. Okay technically not a mom but Auntie Em from “Wizard of Oz”. She was a tough cookie, raising the dreamer Dorothy and working on the farm beside her hubby and three knucklehead farmhands.

  12. Am I totally annoying in saying that while Molly Weasley is my all time favorite momma, Lorelai from the Gilmore Girls is 2nd? she is SO offbeat and awesome. I know. Gilmore Girls. I can’t help but love it! ahahahha

    • YES! Etheline is mindful of their needs, encouraging of their talents and interests, and maintains an active career and intellectual life of her own. My dream!

      My favorite (for their parenting style) fictional moms aren’t the ones who give me the impression that their TV/movie kids turned out awesome in spite of them.

    • Unfortunately, while Erin Brocovich accomplished great things, her own children in the movie began to feel neglected. I guess it comes down to priorities, though, because she was showing them that you have an obligation to help those who have no where else to turn.

      • “You just started a fire!”

        Also, my vote goes to Rose Castorini from Moonstruck. “Do you love him, Loretta?” “No.” “Good. When you love them, they drive you crazy. ‘Cause they know they can.”

  13. i really actually like the step mom from Juno, Bren. She totally gives it to the ultra sound technician and any mom that will sew maternity jeans for their pregnant teenager is pretty cool.

    • I agree! Bren was awesome, also she names her kid, Liberty Belle. How adorable! She is a total trooper!

      I think as far as movie mom’s that I adore, I’d have to pick Keri Russell from “Waitress”. Though most of the movie she isn’t thrilled with having the kid, that moment when she holds the baby and tells that ass husband of hers to take a hike. Major super-mom goosebumps!! I dream of the days I can make pies with my small one … when they get here. πŸ™‚

  14. ET!!!!! Sorry, I love the movie, and Mary one of the COOLEST moms! Whenever someone loves it, too…I just have to squeal. I love the movie so much I named my son Elliot!!

  15. Molly Weasley fo’sho’ she knows how to roll with the punches, kick some dark wizard ass, and be a loving mother who makes life fun for her family πŸ™‚ Even if she had 7 kids instead of 9, that’s still a lot πŸ™‚

    Also Donna from Mamma Mia is a badass, holding down the fort by herself while still being a good role model for her daughter. Not to mention, she is still able to get in touch with her inner rock star (with some help from her friends).

    I totally second Marge Gunderson in Fargo, Elaine Miller in Almost Famous. Francis McDormand for the mama win!

  16. Omg. This post just gave me yet another reason to read the Harry Potter series! My fiance and I just finished watching all the current movies. πŸ™‚

  17. Molly Weasely FTW! She makes it look easy, and she still rocks hardcore. <3

    Also, I loved Children of Men! I picked up the book in high school in one of those Take a Book/Leave a Book things at the library, with no idea what it was about. Spent a couple weeks at my grandma's reading it. So good. I need to reread that.

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