I just started a new job, and my former boss (who I’m still on excellent terms with) put the call out to fill my old position. A good friend of mine applied for it. And though she didn’t ask me for a reference, our field is very small and I know my old boss will ask me about her.
The problem is: I have serious doubts about her ability to do my former job, and I think my old boss should know that. And some of my doubts are based on personal information that is none of my old boss’ business, but I know would affect my friend’s work. I’m stumped.
Homies! What wisdom can you impart? -Marguerite
Oof, Homies, how you would handle this sticky situation?