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I knew breastfeeding might be hard, but had no idea weaning would seem impossible

I've come across the advice "If mom isn't happy, then do something differently," but that's not all that helpful in the long-run. I've found a few gentle weaning tips online, but the prospect of a few more months of diligence and consistency seems daunting and exhausting. And my friends aren't much help, either. While they're in various stages of breastfeeding, we're all trying to figure out when it's right to stop breastfeeding and how to go about doing it.

How do we tell our toddler that we're breaking up?

My partner of 9 years and I recently made the amicable decision to end our relationship. Though the split hasn't been easy on either one of us, we are devoted to our almost-three-year-old daughter and are adamant on cultivating a healthy environment moving forward so that she may continue to thrive as we continue to co-parent her in separate homes.

My partner and I speak and sign five languages and are trying to raise multilingual children

As a child of immigrants I ended up bilingual pretty much by default. My parents are from Taiwan and China, so I grew up speaking Mandarin Chinese with them and speaking English with my older sister and at school. Although I dreaded going to Chinese School on Sundays as a child, by the time I left for college I recognized the benefits of being bilingual and I knew even then that I would want my future children to be the same.