5 things nobody told me about changing my last name

I was not prepared for having a new name. It was a very difficult decision for me, and though I chose to give up my last name in favor of my partner's, I had a full blown identity crisis in the months after the wedding. I found myself constantly saying, "Nobody told me about this." Here are a few things that I discovered, just to further inform those of you who are contemplating the "big switch."


The pitfalls of offbeat baby names debunked

I've heard the objections before but I've always loved unusual names so nay-saying never really had an impact on me. However, I have felt that if I planned to give my own child an unusual name it was my duty to really, truly examine those objections. Would giving my kid an unusual name really damage her? I'm thinking no.