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Why we're not planning on cutting our son's hair anytime soon

My son is newly two-years-old, and has long, blonde, curly hair. Aside from the fact that it's usually a bit wild, it pretty much looks like the kind you'd find on toddler beauty queens — and we have no intentions of cutting it any time soon. Sure, we're nearly constantly bombarded with mis-assumptions about his sex due to his hair, and family members are always quick to ask us when we're going to finally cut it.

Parenting outside the gender binary

We want Avie to feel as unrestrained by gender as possible. We began by giving him a gender-neutral name and attempting to dress him in neutral colors and patterns. As he gets older, we validate and encourage his emotions, and intend to support him in whatever interests he develops.