25 offbeat Valentine gift ideas for a sweet, sexy, & smoldering Valentine's Day #Shopping#gifts#holidays#jewelry#valentine's day January 30 2019 | Catherine Clark bijouxandbits Love in Abundance Heart Necklace If you celebrate the silliness of Valentine's Day, this roundup of offbeat Valentine gift ideas is for you. And if you don't, I totally get it. But it doesn't have to be all about partners and love and junk. It can be about friendship, self love, and lots of, ahem, playtime, too. Here are 25 Valentine's Day gifts that are sincere, goofy, spiritual, glam, and maybe totally for you or your partner(s). Keep an eagle eye out for a shout-out to our publisher's new passion project (literally)… It's You, It's Always Been You Card from Unleash the monkeys I Love You Necklace from GLDNxLayeredAndLong Sterling Silver Anatomical Heart Pendant from Celeste Jewelery Micro black diamond skull necklace from Iz & Co. The Cure – Robert Smith card from Lost Plots Shop Modern Geometric Diamond Necklace from Joseph Jewelry Got You a Unicorn card from Sweet Ingenuity Resin Ring – Flamingo Pink from Sloane Jewelry Design Moon Stud Earrings from Brilliant Earth Happy Valentines Gay card from The Punky Bunny Kama Sutra rolling pin from The Best Pin Ever Sterling silver necklace from BBBGEM Moondust Hex Cuff Links from Forge & Fountain PROS BEFORE BROS available here I'd be remiss in a post about Valentine's Day if I didn't mention our publisher Ariel Meadow Stalling's newly released erotic memoir about her experience in healing through professional domination. But the kicker is that it's a GORGEOUS art book as well that comes with one-of-a-kind, hand-stamped raw brass wearable art. Here's a quick hit of what it's all about: PROS BEFORE BROS is a true story about sex work and grabbing your own healing by the balls, the narrative explores identity, feminism, shame, surrender, gender roles, BDSM, empowerment, embodiment, and trying to get out of your own damn head. The book is intended as a talismanic object, designed to be held and felt deeply. A compact 4"x6" luxe hardback, it fits in your back pocket (in part because it really wants to touch your butt). The gold-embossed canvas cover feels good under your fingers, and the cover illustration by Seatac artist Stasia Burrington stands on its own as a work of art. Each book is sold as a pairing with one of two jewelry options, exclusive wearable art pieces designed by the author in collaboration with Tacoma, WA-based wearable art and jewelry designer, Squirrel vs Coyote. If you don't know if this kind of thing is up your alley, I get it. Give the excerpt a read before you decide. It's super limited edition, so if you want to snag a book/jewelry set for yourself or your partner(s), head here. Plaid Corset With Lace Trim from Hips & Curves Hips & Curves comes in sizes up to 6X and are so chic. Lace And Mesh Keyhole Body Suit – Red from Sneaky Vaunt Up to size XL Geeky personalized glasses from Glass Cannons Copper Tie Clip from WR Metalarts Raw rose quartz necklace from Chrysalis Studios Bell Choker Collar Lego Frame, Game of Thrones from Qutie Creative Designs Pearl and Herkimer diamon earrings from Gardens of the Sun The Heart – Original from Chakrubs I Fucking Love you candle from Peace Organics Truth or Dare for Couples: 50 Questions and Challenges Get over hating Valentine's Day, and start culture jamming The day that everyone loves to hate is coming right up! Oh, Valentine's Day. It's not just the single people who hate Valentine's Day ("the holiday designed to make me… Read More Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo Catherine Clark Catherine Clark is Offbeat Bride's Senior Editor. In her spare time she loiters at her local library, makes art, watches movies en masse, plays video and tabletop games, poorly cooks healthy things, cuddles with her feline fur baby, and blogs at BijouxandBits.com. @enidjcoleslaw @bijouxandbits @bijouxandbits PREVIOUS Keep your dog leashed: thoughts from one friendly pet owner to another NEXT How underwater maternity photos helped me enjoy my pregnant body Show/Hide comments [ 1 ] I am on board with buying a copy of Pros Before Bros, but it's not showing up when I search Ada's and searching Ariel Meadow Stallings just brings up 3 different variations of the OBB book. Will this be available soon? Reply Join the conversation Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. Subscribe me to your mailing list No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. Make sure you're familiar with our no-drama comment policy.