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I just found out I'm pregnant! Incidentally, I was between rounds of interviews for my next job, which I start next week. The thought of telling them I need to go on maternity leave seven months after starting my job terrifies me. I've been let go due to lack of work twice in the past year, so I'm scared. And now there's an additional life counting on me. When and how do you tell your employer you're pregnant?

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How do you meet career demands while still staying true to yourself?

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