How do you live in a space that doesn't fit your style?

Unemployment has brought my years of living in quirky shared apartments to an abrupt end. I'm now renting a room in a dear friend's house, and I think I may go NUTS. I mean, I'm glad that living in a pastel-hued environment makes her happy. I really am. But being surrounded by "soothing" shades of aqua, "adorable" knick-knacks, and "inspirational" quotes is inducing serious angst for me. What's the Offbeat Homie in a stiflingly decorated environment to do?


Help! My roommate is SUPER loud while doin' it

My roommate keeps having loud crazy monkey sex when I'm wide awake and in the next room. One friend of mine said I just need to get better headphones, and another friend of mine said that she is being totally inconsiderate, and that there are rules with the roommate-having while boning. What are the rules? How does everyone else deal with this issue?


Help! How do we minimize backlash when kicking out a toxic roommate?

I currently live in a house with four roommates and our lease is up at the end of October. Here's our problem… Everyone wants to stay in the house, but none of us want to stay with our one roommate. The other three of us want to kick her out, but we aren't sure how to without backlash. What is a good and formal but polite way to tell her she isn't wanted anymore?