What were your life goals to accomplish before having a kid?

I wonder if the offbeat community might offer a unique perspective as to the goals they'd like to have accomplished beforehand. After Googling, what I can find always discusses weight/nutrition, almost exclusively. While I'm sure those goals are helpful to many women, I appreciated how you handled it with offbeat bride, and I'm also sure there are other worthwhile goals worthy of discussion.

How can our family be more physically active?

Right now we have an active four-year-old daughter. We're in a bit of a jogging-with-stroller, biking-with-burley rut. We have recently started kayaking but would love to get some other suggestions — especially anything that allows the kiddo to be more than cargo and still gets the adult heart rate up.