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What unexpected things did you want when you were new parents?

I understand how useful those are (I intend to help buy a duffle bag and stuff it full of diapers!) but I wanted to know if there were any items or helpful suggestions that would be useful for me to give or do for new parents. What "strange" or "unusual" items will be useful for the new parents? What unexpected items did you not have that you wish you did have when you were new parents?

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How I get over the guilt when exchanging or donating unwanted gifts

As an adult I find that I have a lot of guilty feelings over receiving gifts that I don't actually want, need, or like. Whenever I receive something that I don't really want, need, or like I revert to the my polite seven year old self — I smile and say thank you.

But now it's more complicated as I'm the adult who has to decide what to do with the unwanted thing…

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Gifts for a friend going through a divorce, separation, or break-up

The first few weeks of a separation can be fucking intense. The grief, the loss, even a sense of physical pain… it's weird that something so common is so awful! Offering your ear is the most important thing you can give to any friend experiencing a profound loss or recovering from a trauma, but we get it: sometimes you want to give something more to offer your comfort. Of course you know your friend and their interests best, but here are our suggestions for great gifts for grieving friends.