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How do you announce your adoption plans?

My husband and I just decided and made the first step to adopt a child. This is a super exciting time in our life, and I'd like to share it with people. But I feel like a simple Facebook post just isn't the right way or doesn't do the announcement justice. I'm wondering if any offbeat readers have any suggestions/feedback/or advice on announcing you're adopting a child?

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How can we make a non-sucky adoption profile?

My husband and I are beginning the open adoption process, and it's time to make a profile. We're Offbeat Lite (yoga, geeky, vegan, non-Christian), and all of the samples I've seen online look like Pinterest threw up on them. I want expectant parents to get to know us — after all, they'll be part of our family — but I'm dealing with pressure to conform to the script of "loving couple describes each other lovingly while lovingly waxing poetic about the loving love they have to give your lovely child."

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I'm adopted and have no clue about my heritage or race

"By the way, What are you?" I've heard this question, referring to my "race" so many times in my almost 30 years on this planet. When I was a kid it didn't bother me. When I was a teenager, it made me sad. As an adult, it pisses me off to no end… and to be honest, it still makes me sad.

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We're adopting a teenager: help?

I have loved how Offbeat Families has covered and supported all kinds of families. My husband and I recently and totally unexpectedly became parents to a 17-year-old boy. I have been blown away by the depth of emotions I have felt after only knowing him for a short time.