How did your body REALLY change after giving birth? #I've got a parenting question!#bodies#pregnancy#self esteem#starred June 13 | Offbeat Editors offbeatbride Offbeat Home & Life runs these advice questions as an opportunity for our readers to share personal experiences and anecdotes. Readers are responsible for doing their own research before following any advice given here... or anywhere else on the web, for that matter. Photo by NWCORAZÓN Photo and Video. I know that I can expect my body to change after giving birth — it's kind of obvious to me that growing a human, gaining 30-60lbs, and then pushing a human out of my body will do that. I'm curious about the REAL CHANGES — not just what happens on the surface (stretch marks, acne, etc.). What changes did your body experience after giving birth throughout the first year of your child's life? -Amber Related Post Nursing gave me a supposedly-perfect body (but I wanted my A-cups back) I was astonished by this transformation into my ideal body. I felt lighter on my feet and more comfortable in my skin. In one year,... Read more We've talked about what post-partum life is like practically, and you guys were all over the post-partum period discussion… but we've never REALLY delved into The Body Talk. So we want Offbeat Families readers to tell us: How did your body change after you gave birth? We think the comments on this post are pretty enlightening… here are a few we especially love: Fact is my body was completely changed by child birth. The reality is you must come to accept this new you or consistently struggle to get back to the old. Because no matter how much you work out,you will never be perfect (even if you were a super models before kids). Yep, my body at least, is still going to look like Freddy Krueger ripped his way out of my belly. This after children me is ME. and I'm still pretty damn sexy. — Mia Your physical body does bounce back pretty quickly with a healthy diet and some regular exercise. I still have stretch marks and some skin sagginess, and my poor boobs will never be as perky, but I am actually in better shape after my daughter than I was before. My daughter has made me way more conscious of my diet because I want to be a good role model for her. I don't want her to struggle with the same PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome) issues that I did for years. — Jessica My experience of post baby body – not too bad! My girls, even after b/f twice for a year+ each time are in pretty good shape (and height off the waist). My belly will never ever be the same, but really pretty happy generally. I think having a partner who tells you regularly how hot and sexy you are (and believes it) probably counts for a lot!!! As for baby weight – I gained 20kg first time, and took it all off walking up and down hills with my baby on my back. Second time not so much, but I was too exhausted to do the hill walking (see above!). — Annie We love the comments on this post but please try to avoid disparaging your mama bodies! We think you're beautiful. Join our community! Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo PREVIOUS Easy closet-to-office makeover for small spaces NEXT My U.S. military hospital birth didn't follow protocol Show/Hide comments [ 200 ] Join the conversation Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Participate in this conversation via emailGet only replies to your comment, the best of the rest, as well as a daily recap of all comments on this post. No more than a few emails daily, which you can reply to/unsubscribe from directly from your inbox. No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. Make sure you're familiar with our no-drama comment policy.