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The right answer to "how is the baby?" and why we have kids in the first place

If you don't have kids but plan to have them some day, remember that. Chances are you'll need to change the way you hear that question soon, so that when you have a baby you don't start answering the way things are really going. Because, if you were being honest, you would probably say: "Baby is fine, except…" (don't worry, there are LOTS of things you can fill in here. I'll just add one.)

Petitioning fate while you're expecting: 9 lessons for those planning unmedicated deliveries

Childbirth can feel like it's going to be a train coming through your body. If you're a parent-to-be, you already know you're getting ready for what some consider one of life's big journeys — as in childbirth first, motherhood second. That's the order you think in if you're like me and didn't grow up around a lot of kids. The real journey is being a parent, but you don't realize it. At least I didn't, at first.

My son simultaneously wears a Dora apron and fights sexism

It started when my son decided he wanted cupcakes. I figured we'd make cupcakes and take them to work for our friends. I gave him one of my aprons but it was too big. The next week at the local farmer's market I spied homemade kid-sized aprons. They had some robots and some flowers, but what really caught my eye was, of course, a Dora apron. It is bright pink and lacy but whatever — that's not something that would register for Isaac.