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How to know when to conform and when to rebel

No matter how determined you may be to fit in and go with the flow, there is a point at which you, too, would rebel. Where you would draw the line between conformity and rebellion would be much different than mine. But it's really important to articulate exactly what that line is for you. Here are two questions can help you get started…

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Fuck yeah, I'm getting older! My alternative anti-aging manifesto

The daily realities of aging have also terrified me — losing my physical strength and vitality, and also the effect the years will have on my appearance. As a woman in a society obsessed with youth and beauty it is hard to shake off the stigma of aging. As I approach my 33rd birthday I set about devising my own, alternative "anti-aging manifesto." I began to write it down, and found myself smiling, as my words were light hearted and empowering. I was focusing on all the things I want to embrace.

On being the only female at the skatepark: The pressure, bullying, and the sexism

As a lone female in a skatepark full of men, you stand out. They make comments. They laugh. They criticize. But most upsetting is that harassment and unwanted advances are encouraged when you are a singular women around a large groups of men. This is my story of skate park misogyny. Then let's talk about your tips or advice for being the only female at the skate park? How do you handle the pressure, the bullying, and the sexism?

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Is it even possible to have a low-key pregnancy and childbirth?

My friends all have doctor/hospital horror stories about their own pregnancies, however they think I'm crazy when I talk about possible home birth, or skipping certain tests. Does anyone have any thoughts on finding a good medical support who understands my needs and won't push for unnecessary tests or pass unsolicited advice on my lifestyle?