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Why I'm just not into babies (and I've got one!)

I am blessed to have a beautiful, healthy 18 month old daughter whom I love to the ends of the earth, and I show her a lot of love and affection. But I'm just not into being a mum with a baby. Any other parents feel a similarly? I'd love to hear from those who may understand where I'm coming from.

How writing on a typewriter helps this modern writer

I finally made a special trip with Other Husband (Legal Husband was working) into New York City to Gramercy Typewriter. And it was just like being in Ollivander's wand shop: the right one was going to choose me. I viewed this moment as a rebirth of my busy, writerly self. But why? Why would a typewriter make any difference at all, especially to a lady who got her start on Microsoft Word? Well, I'll tell you, and it's not just because it looks cool…

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My thoughts about donating eggs changed now that I'M a mom

No part of me regrets the decision I made to be an egg donor, but I regret how I went about it. I did not understand the gravity of my decisions; I believed I was mature and now I look back and feel like I was just a kid. And now there is a little boy out there that is my kids' half-brother that they may never meet.

What the hell are the financing options for non-traditional homes?

We'd convert the top floor into a swinging loft where we'd reside, and the bottom level would be studio and manufacturing space for my husband's freelance art business, possibly with a storefront gallery. Yet, we're having a terrible time finding funding for such a building. Why is it so difficult for banks to catch up to current trends, and be willing to fund live-work scenarios? What financing options are out there for people like us who aren't at home in a "normal" home?