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What do you do with emails that are not intended for you?

I have a name that's not common in my generation, but is common in older generations. When I signed up for email, I chose the simplest form of my name. Now that the other 50 or so people in the US who have my name are also using email, I am having problems with receiving their personal emails. How do you handle emails not intended for you?

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Letting food consume you: Being careful how we talk about food

Everyday conversations about food usually involve negative phrases that we don't even think about using. As a baker, my personal pet peeve is any variation of, "I'm going to have to spend an extra thirty minutes on the treadmill after eating this." I want you to enjoy my baking, not feel guilty over it. I also don't want you to make me feel guilty for providing you with baked goods or for choosing not to spend an extra thirty minutes on the treadmill.

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Long-distance sex hacks with the magic of technology

Long-distance relationships of all kinds are more and more prevalent thanks to technology. Keeping in touch is easier than ever before… but sometimes it's the lack of touch that makes these relationships difficult. Long-distance sex is totally possible, and it can even be totally fulfilling. I'm going to talk about some long-distance sex hacks using technology. Let's talk about some long-distance sex hacks using technology.

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Hardcore Norm: Because dressing different is such a cliché

The week before, at a craft beer tasting party at an indie advertising agency in Silver Lake, a sculpture artist was remarking about recently looking through photos of style choices from the aughts. "What was I thinking," she said in bewilderment. That evening she was wearing a black tank top, and, like, pants. Maybe three quarter length? Or not? Maybe black jeans? Or not-jean pants? I couldn't recall. Perhaps, I thought, this was just a symptom of getting older. There was some kind of sartorial giving a shit phase that we had all grown out of. But it turned out this, too, was a trend. Kids, too young to have grown out of anything, were dressing this way.

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Making the choice to believe in people, or: Why I choose to be "naïve"

When someone cuts me off in traffic, I imagine that they're in a terrible hurry and didn't see me. When a young man asks to use my cell phone in a bad part of town, I hand it over and ask if he needs anything else. When I'm taking a Greyhound bus ride and the bus is half full of freshly released prisoners, I always happen to end up right in the middle of their group of seats. I am often called naïve. But I won't let that change my world.