Why this feminist mom is okay raising a princess

I feel like there's a certain trend in feminist parenting where we totally support little boys wearing dresses and sparkles… but cringe a bit inside when a little girl wants to do it. Feminism and Queer-positive parenting is supposed to be about choice, and that sometimes sometimes includes the choice to explore the identities of princess or a sparkly fairy.


"Speechless" is a show about someone with a disability… and it's not completely fucking that up!

As a mom of a child with Down syndrome, I'm always looking for something new and good that relates to our family on TV. As a deaf mom who has long been a disability rights activist, I've found that to be pretty damn hard to find.

"Speechless" is a new TV show that seems to fit the bill. It's amazing to see the first TV show in which the central character has a disability, and all of the story lines flow around him!


"I still feel angry and betrayed by my body": When breastfeeding doesn't go as you planned

At six months my son bit me while I was trying to nurse him on a plane, and I nearly threw him onto my husband's lap and said, "That's it, I am done." I went exclusively to pumping and supplemented with formula. To this day, nearly three years later, I still feel angry and betrayed by my body.

I really want all new moms to know that for some breastfeeding comes naturally. For others it is the most difficult, frustrating, and demoralizing experience in their lives. That coupled with sleep deprivation, postpartum depression, and life in general, and you can find yourself in an awful place emotionally, mentally, and physically…