What gifts can we send our pregnant friend for herself, not the baby? #I've got a parenting question!#friendships#gifts#pregnancy March 30 | Offbeat Editors offbeatbride @offbeathome runs these advice questions as an opportunity for our readers to share personal experiences and anecdotes. Readers are responsible for doing their own research before following any advice given here... or anywhere else on the web, for that matter. All photos by Angie Tabaczynski. My best friend is pregnant. Lately the preggo hormones have been making her very depressed and I was thinking about making up a care package for her — one that's all about her and not so much focused on baby stuff. I know there are a lot of products that pregnant women can't use or even come in contact with, so I was wondering if any of you could suggest some things that would be safe and useful for a mama to be. –Naomi Here are a few of our favorite ideas: Accessories Maternity clothing can be a real bitch. If your friend is into accessories, things like scarves, hats, Zoya nail polish (lower toxicity than most nail products) and other accessories can be a cool way to say, "Hey! Here's something you can wear and love whether or not you're pregnant, because it turns out you're still YOU." When the Wind Owls Scarf Beignet or Nay Hat in Turquoise Hoot That Girl? Scarf, $23; Seamless Transition Scarf, $28; Brunch Bunch Scarf, $30. Scarves are an awesome option — they're fun (did you see that one covered in bacon and eggs?) and you can wear them whether or not a small human is about to burst out of your body. Non-baby books, OMG Related Post My friend just had an abortion — how do I tell her I'm pregnant without re-opening fresh wounds? Last month, one of my best friends shared with our group of friends that she had an abortion. I was one of the few who... Read more Sure, a lot of parents-to-be want ALL THE BABY INFO RIGHT NOW… but they also like reading non-baby stuff, too. We have a massive archive of books to choose from — these are especially loved: Sex, Sin, and Zen, A People's History of the United States, American Gods, Mrs. Dalloway. If you're looking for even more adult-friendly written works, check out the discussion over here. Comfort items Superman fuzzy socks, $13; UGG Women's Ansley Bling Slipper, $130; Plush Multi Color Fun Striped Socks, $20. Pregnancy can be rough on the body, and anything soft and nice can help. Warm slippers, robes that make you feel snuggly, you name it — if your friend is feeling distinctly uncomfortable, chances are she'll appreciate any efforts to help her feel differently. Fox Trot Along Socks Frida Be Me Socks in Green and Purple Local ideas If you want to stick to gifts from your neck of the woods, here are a few ideas you could try out: A voucher or gift card to a local cleaning service (check Groupon!) A gift certificate to a spa for a manicure/pedicure or a massage (we always see tons of deals on Amazon local) Movie tickets, because it may be tough to go to see a flick after the baby comes. Craft supplies, if she's into that kind of thing (crafts can get out some of those crazy nesting impulses that hit even the non-crafty during their last weeks of pregnancy) Yummy, non-chemically skincare stuff like this. Pregnant mama, what gifts for yourself have you most enjoyed? Join our community! Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo PREVIOUS Not another one: dealing with gifts you get again & again NEXT The year I spent turning a trash house into a cozy wagon home Show/Hide comments [ 62 ] Join the conversation Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked * Comment Participate in this conversation via email No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. Make sure you're familiar with our no-drama comment policy.